Make a Bucket List & Make it Happen!

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Where do we begin? It’s been awhile since my last blog post. Although— so much has happened. Sometimes the stress of life overwhelms, and we just can’t seem to catch up. ‘Writer’s block” has happened to me a few times. I find I write best when my head is clear for hours – and I haven’t had that in awhile. Since my last post we have had some amazing travels- which I will be sure to fill you in on!

Before we begin, I would like to post a disclaimer: I never, ever, ever want anyone to feel envious regarding our travels. I share because I want to encourage others to travel, and perhaps help them with their planning. I know reading others’ travel blogs has really helped and inspired me! Some may think we “travel excessively”, or I often hear ” how do you get time off from work?” The truth is, Conner and I both work really hard. We both went to school for a long time, and are fortunate to work in good fields. We both love our jobs and we work hard, so that we can have fun and see/ do things. Compared to other countries (i.e. Europe, Australia), Americans actually travel very little. We don’t get enough vacation and holiday time ( in my opinion).

My husband and I work to really live- not live to work 🙂 I think anyone and everyone should, and can make their travel bucket list a reality if they plan and save!

Nomadic Matt is one of my favorite travel bloggers. He writes great information on how to make travel work on any budget- click here-You Don’t need a lot of money to travel

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Check out these interesting articles comparing American holidays/ PTO compared with other countries-

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And one may think that since Americans typically work longer hours and more days, we are more productive, but this is not the case.

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Quite interesting don’t you think? And so now back to the fun stuff— travel adventures!!!!

So let’s back up, to where we left off- December 26th, 2016. The bittersweet “Gibbon Experience”.  What an awesome opportunity to zip-line through the jungles of Laos and sleep in a treehouse! As scared as I was, it was really the coolest thing ever. And if you aren’t a scaredy cat like me, you would enjoy every second!!

So we leave the Gibbon experience in a crazy, non comfortable ride on the back of a truck. We arrived back at our not- so -nice accommodation to sleep- the Riverside Huay Xai. The choices are limited in that area, and I would have much rather spent a 3rd night in the jungle treehouse (tree rats and all- see previous post), but it is what it is.  Our dinner at the hotel restaurant was not appetizing ,but we ate what we could bear, only drinking a beer to wash it down. I was exhausted – thank goodness.Awoke early to transfer from Laos to Thailand border via land. What a crazy experience!

We arrived at the border and arranged for a driver to pick us up. At the border we had some trouble. They said we owed more money because it was an “ off time”—hence, this was not an off time- this is just a communist country’s way of getting more money from Americans. So Conner got us more cash . We wait , and wait for our “driver”. While waiting Conner got stir crazy- he went in the bathroom to shave off his beard-and while doing so I watched a few families cross the border back to Laos from Thailand with new born babies. I mean brand – spanking- newborn babies. It appears ( and makes sense)- the Laos would cross over to have their baby in Thailand, which has better healthcare- and then they literally just walk their new baby across the border into Laos. Wow!

So our personal driver finally shows up- with  a mini van . We get in and meet our co- riders- two young Israeli girls. They were so sweet. Over the next 2 hours we talked alot. I learned they were in the Israeli military. Apparently it is required for all citizens to be in the military. The two young girls-19- were in for 1 year Isreali military. I was fascinated to hear their stories.They explained that their parents encouraged them to travel after they were done with their military time. The girls would now backpack together through Asia for 6 months, how  cool! They had already done volunteer work for weeks with a Mongolian tribe. They said it was an incredible, life changing experience. They were glad they did it- but would not do it again. They both got terribly ill with salmonella.

So we drive along across the Laos to Thailand border. We have been to Thailand before, but never to the North, and were headed to Chaing Mai- a city we had heard wonderful things. Cultural, political and just overall interesting talks between us and our new friends commenced as we rode along- our driver drove quite crazy at times. Our Israeli friends actually told him to cool down and drive slower. Thank God. I was too nervous to say anything, but was scared out of my mind. After a bumpy 4 hour journey we arrived in the beautiful Chaing Mai. It was 9pm but the city was bustling. There seemed to be a festival going on, the streets crowded with locals of all ages. Just the sight of the familiar tuk-tuks driving all around warmed my heart. Oh Thailand, I had missed you so!

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We walked around a bit but eventually decided we wanted a good night’s sleep so we could make the most of the next day. We really only had the one entire day to explore the city. And boy did we make the most of it! We saw walked and explored and saw so much! Starting bright and early we wasted no time! We set out in our tuk -tuk to get closer to some amazing temples.

We had a busy and fun filled morning exploring Wat Phra That Doi Suthep and Wat Phra Singh, and just walking the streets of the glorious town!

I love architecture of all kinds. While I am Christian, I really appreciate learning about other religions and beliefs, and I find Buddhist temples to be beautiful! In Morocco, we saw some absolutely gorgeous mosques and Jewish temples, in Spain magnificent churches, in Cambodia Hindu Temples, and Japan and China ancient structures with so much history!  Some say ” you’ve seen one temple, you’ve seen them all”, but I disagree whole heartedly. They are all amazing and unique to me and Chiang Mai did not disappoint!

 

We had the most spectacular lunch at Cooking Love- a wonderful, authentic , family-owned restaurant. The food was phenomenal and the service immaculate. If you come to Chiang Mai you must come here!!!

The Owner came over and chatted with us for awhile. She explained how her little family size restaurant has become so popular with tourists, that she continues having to expand. She is trying to find a balance between success but staying authentic. She introduced us to her small infant child , and her sons who were part of the cooking team. She gave us each handmade shirts as a keepsake as well. She was just wonderful. In our experience the Thai are typically so nice and friendly. They welcome guests, and treat outsiders with such warmth.

We said goodbye to our new friends and headed back out to see more of the city. Chiang Mai had some similarities to Bangkok, but was also different in so many ways. It seems quainter, and although a “ city” it seems more homey with a small town feel. At one temple I met a local man who told me many Thai prefer Chiang Mai over Bangkok. He explained the “authenticity” of the Thai culture was more intact in Chiang Mai. Conner and I enjoyed both cities so very much! I definitely recommend Chiang Mai to anyone visiting Thailand, or even the nearby country of Laos, as crossing the border was pretty easy!

For more reading on our previous Thailand and other Asia adventures click here –Conner Honeymoon Adventures

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We had quite the long haul back home after our Asia adventures. We still had quite a few more adventures to come before we would return back to DC. Our next destination was Chicago. We had a layover there, and decided since we had never been there we should make the most it. We extended our layover from a few hours to 3 days. Now keep in mind this is December. We were leaving SE Asia where it was hot, hot, hot and going to one of the colder cities in the US. May I also remind you, we were traveling with backpacks, so we had limited space, and only clothes for warm weather.

Thank goodness, my brother Christopher had told us about a store in the Tokyo Haneda airport (our first layover), where we could buy reasonably priced winter clothes. We definitely hit the goldmine in this place!

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We both bought warm coats, insulated long sleeve tees and pants at a very fair price! We were good to go! We just had to carry -on all of our new attire, since our packs were full.

As we were preparing to board our flight, I stopped in a shoe store just to look around. I checked out a few pairs of boots, but they didn’t have my size. The woman working at the store must have thanked me so sweetly about 5 times, just for coming in. I didn’t even buy anything! Boy, would I miss the sweet Japanese!

I don’t remember much at all about this long flight back to the US. I suppose I must have slept a lot, probably enjoyed a movie or two, as I often do on those long flights.

We arrived in Chicago late afternoon. A year earlier, while on a food tour in Madrid, Spain, we met an awesome guy Mark. We hung out a couple of times in Spain, and kept in touch via Facebook. Mark lives in Chicago and invited us to attend a Blackhawks game. He had a VIP box section for work! We were super excited, but literally had to rush to make it in time. I realized I had my dirty hiking shoes would not cut it for the fancy box seats. Thank goodness there was a DSW right next to our hotel- The Wit. The Wit is a DoubleTree Property, and since we earn Hilton points we got to stay complimentary.Beautiful hotel- and the complimentary chocolate chip cookies weren’t bad either!

We ran into DSW, and in under 10 minutes we both had a pair of winter shoes. I got some really cute black leather ankle boots! We were ready to go to the game! Mark met us at our hotel and we cabbed to the arena together. The VIP box was awesome! We had all the food, wine, beer we could think of!

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We some very nice friends of Mark’s, and after the game we went out for another drink at  a local night spot. We were pretty tired though and knew we needed sleep sow e could make the most of our Chicago days!

We were lucky- it was a fairly warmer winter week for Chicago- with a low of mid 20’s and no snow on the ground. We walked all around downtown, Millennium Park, Navy Pier, Chicago Riverwalk. It was wonderful!

 

 

I was impressed at how clean the downtown streets were! People were fairly friendly, and it was easy to walk around, as well a hail cabs. After all that walking we had really worked up an appetite! We decided we just had to get some deep dish Chicago pizza! Conner googled one of the best places and we ended up at Gino’s East- and boy was it good!!!

 

The restaurant had a really cool vibe with graffiti walls all around. At each table you are given markers to add your own design to the walls.

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We walked around some more, but were tired pretty early. The jet lag was setting in. We got a good night sleep, so that the next AM we could get up early to go the top of Willis Tower! A MUST do if in Chicago! If you get there right when they open, you avoid long lines!

We enjoyed Chicago very much, but it was soon time to move along!

I think 2-3 days is a decent amount of time to get a feel for Chicago and see many great sites! I would love go back sometime (maybe when it is warmer :)).

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We still had one more stop before home! Conner diverted our flight to yet another layover in Orlando, FL, so that we could ring in the New Year with great friends! We figured we had off of work, so why not?

When arriving in Orlando we exhaustingly checked into the downtown Embassy Suites. It has become our go-to hotel when in Orlando. It is a great location, includes breakfast and happy hour and has decent rooms. We immediately went to sleep, but the next day before visiting with friends we first had to find New Year’s Eve attire. The only nearby mall had literally 2 stores- Macy’s and Express. We were able to find what we needed, and then enjoyed our NYE weekend ringing in the New Year!

By the time we arrived back to DC, we were so incredibly exhausted- but the adventures and memories made were extraordinary!  Another fab trip in the books- but where oh, where would be our next stop?

 

 

Ringing in the New Year in Barcelona!

On our second to last day of 2015, we woke up ready to see more of Madrid and Real Madrid!  We set out early to explore Buen Retiro Park, which up until the early 19th century belonged to the Spanish Monastery. The park was really beautiful- hence it’s translated meaning “Park of the pleasant retreat”.

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The park has a really cool crystal palace with huge fossils inside!

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After a few hours at the park we had to start heading towards the Real Madrid soccer stadium. We were all ready with our new fan shirts and scarves!

The Santiago Bernabeu Stadium is spectacular and seats over 81,000. Security at the stadium was very tight- they searched everyone’s bag prior to entering. We had amazing seats near the field! We were so close to Christiano Ronaldo–sigh! 😉

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We had so much fun at the game! I can honestly say this may have been the first sporting event that I have been to where I watched every play!

We really enjoyed our time in Madrid! Such an awesome city, and often referred to as “the most passionate city in Europe”.

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New Years Eve we travelled to Barcelona- our last stop on this amazing trip! The high speed train got us there in less than 3 hours!

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Barcelona was originally founded as a Roman city in the middle ages. Barcelona was part of the ancient territory of Catalonia, and many people still speak Catalan and follow the traditions.

We arrived at the Hilton Barcelona where we were upgraded thanks to my hubs Hilton honors. We had booked NYE celebration tickets for a place called Shoko, on the beach, where we would meet our new friend from the Madrid tapas tour- Mark. Gianna and Dave (from the tapas tour) were also in Barcelona, and were going to meet us as well, but Dave unfortunately got food poisoning!

We had just enough time before the celebration to do some shopping- and lucky for us the Hilton is in the shopping district! John found a great deal on some designer jeans he has been wanting, and I got a new purse and coat!

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Our New Years party began at 10, so around 9:15 we set out to find taxi, which was not easy. Eventually we were able to get one and arrived at the busy beach area where many nightclubs and restaurants were hopping!

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We were greeted at the entrance with roses by girls dressed as geishas, and led into a beautiful lounge area. There was so much sushi and wine everywhere- 2 of my favorite things!

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We found our friend Mark and had a blast ringing in 2016! There were amazing dancers and performers throughout the night!

Lots of wine later we ended up spending half of New Years day in bed. We have learned in our 30’s, we definitely feel late nights way more than we did in our 20’s. It was nice to relax and sleep in though!

That afternoon we headed to check out Casa Batllo, a modernist house designed by the famous Gaudi. We would be seeing lots of Gaudi architecture throughout Barcelona. He is known as the “architect for God”. We both love his work and were mesmerized by our first encounter at the Casa Batllo. It was like being in a giant fun house!

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The roof was really amazing and had fabulous views!

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After a couple hours of enjoying the Casa , we set out to explore more of Barcelona and had a great Tapas dinner!

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The next day we had tickets to see the famous Park Guell, another amazing place designed by Gaudi. Before the park we hiked up a very, very steep hill for the best views of Barcelona. The hike up the hill was literally straight up for 25 minutes. Imagine putting a treadmill on the highest incline possible- not easy, but oh so worth it!

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After enjoying the beautiful views, we journeyed to the fascinating Park Guell! Guadi designed this park for a man named Guell, with the intentions of it being a high-end area with estates for wealthy families. The park was built between 1900-1914 and is a UNESCO world heritage site.

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I really love Gaudi’s use of vibrant colors and non-traditional shapes. He often recycled glass and other materials to form the tiles he used throughout his work.

We had the most delicious paella for lunch! I have never had a paella this yummy!
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We rested a bit and later that night met Scott and Kelly (more new friends from Madrid tapas tour) for dinner! We had a great time chatting and eating pintxos.

In northern Spain you often won’t find “tapas” but instead “pintxos” which are bread with different things on top. Tapas, traditionally are small servings of food, not on bread. John and I were getting a little tired of all the bread, so we would eat the stuff off and leave the bread. Many pinxto bars in Barcelona are set up to where you just grab the dishes you want, and keep the toothpick in each dish to keep track of how many you ate. At the end you are charged based on your number of toothpicks, so it is kind of an honor system in a way.

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Even after dinner we stood outside chatting for awhile with Scott and Kelly. Such nice people! They live in Philly and we promised to stay in touch!

The next day we had booked tickets for renowned Sagrada Familia, a huge Roman catholic church, designed by -guess who? Yep- Gaudi! The remarkable place is another UNESCO world heritage site. Tickets book out, so it is definitely advisable to order tickets in advance. As we arrived for our scheduled ticket time, we were given audio guides and maps. A couple hours is definitely needed to fully embrace the Sagrada Familia.

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The gorgeous stained glass windows create the most beautiful monochromatic color schemes.

Coincidently, Mark was also doing the tour that morning and we ran into him!

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The church is made of 3 grand facades- the nativity facade, the passion facade, and the glory facade. The nativity facade is dedicated to the birth of Jesus, and the passion facade dedicated to the crucifixion. Guadi was unable to complete the entire church, and the glory facade is still under construction. It represents the road to God- judgement, death, glory. The entire church is so intricately detailed. The roof is outrageous! I couldn’t get a good picture but here is one I found-

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Guadi’s tomb in the church

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We had a set time where we could go up in the glorious towers of the Sagrada. It was really cool climbing through the towers – and of course the views were amazing!
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We really loved the Sagrada Familia experience. That afternoon we were on a hunt to find the best churros with chocolate. This is one of those things they say one must do in Barcelona. We looked up one of the best rated places and found it in the Gothic quarter. There was a line to get in but it moved pretty quickly. John and I each ordered churros and a swiss chocolate and spanish chocolate to share. Yum! You dip the churros in the chocolate and cream and it is delish!

We walked around some more exploring the fun Gothic quarter, where there are many shops and cafes.

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We had a drink at a cute cafe and people watched. John googled the best restaurants in Barcelona and decided on Viana. The small restaurant was pretty full but we were able to grab 2 of the last seats at the bar. The bartender was a funny Polish guy. He was really friendly and fun to chat with. We had an absolutely delicious dinner of octopus tempura, prawns and veggie rolls with chili sauce and beef cheeks. We were too full for dessert, but the bartender gave us complimentary sweet liquor drinks that tasted like baileys.

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After dinner Mark invited us to meet him at a sports bar to watch American football. We had a fun time and made some more new friends! Sophie is a doll, and from London. She lives in Spain and does bridal makeup most months of the year, and then spends a few months each year in Vietnam. Her boyfriend Adam is one of the owners of a popular club in Ibiza. He works during peak season and then off season travels and has fun.

After another fun night in Barcelona, we needed another morning to sleep in. It was our last day of our amazing trip and both John and I were feeling really sad. We were so happy to have had the adventures, but it is always depressing when a trip comes to an end. The anticipation and planning is part of the fun!

We spent our last afternoon walking along Barcelona beach area.

 

That night as we sadly packed up our stuff, we decided we had to start planning our next trip- Greece and ??? — Peru, India and Australia are also tops on our list- as is Myanmar and the Philipines- oh and South Africa! Ok, I guess we really want to go everywhere!

We had a pretty long 20 hour travel day back home. We flew from Spain to London, and then had a layover and delay for 6 hours, before our 8 hour flight home. I watched 4 movies in a row. Something I have never done- “Ricki & the Flash”, “The Intern”, “Hector” and “Paper Towns”. I was trying to not sleep so that I would be able to sleep through the night when we got home.

Arriving in Baltimore, we were pretty tired. The customs officer grilled us on what we did during our time in Morocco. John said, ” take lots of pictures” and he smiled. She didn’t think that was funny and sternly said, “I need more specifics”. I replied, “rode camels, toured the cities, ate good food”. She wanted more and more information.  Then we got sent to agriculture check because I had a sandwich for John from the plane in my bag. The police dog sniffed it so we were searched. We shared a taxi home with another girl. It was nice to sleep in our own bed and see our sweet kitties. We had missed them so very much!

A wonderful adventure comes to end, but the memories last a lifetime!

In summary, it was really neat to venture through two completely different countries, with two completely different cultures.

Morocco has such a distinct culture with amazing food, traditions, beautiful scenery and very faithful people. The Moroccans are hard workers. The many hagglers annoyed us at times, but as I mentioned in a previous post, this is common in many other countries. The Sahara desert experience was definitely one of the coolest things we have ever done! Morocco is very affordable. There is delicious mint tea everywhere, but wine/beer is hard to find, especially in the medinas. Parts of Morocco make you feel as though you have gone back in time. There is the lovely smell of argan oils everywhere (unless you’re in a tannery where it smells like pigeon poop). Speaking of pigeons- that was the best new thing we ate in Morocco! The mosques are amazing, but since we aren’t Muslim, we weren’t allowed to enter. Many Moroccans speak multiple languages- French, English, Arabic, Spanish and some Berber.We never felt like we would be physically harmed in Morocco. The Moroccan government and military are very prevalent. Cats are also prevalent. They are literally everywhere in Morocco! Moroccans love pastries and different breads. Tajine is the most popular dish in Moroccan, as it is served everywhere.

Spain, also a country with rich culture and history. The Spaniards are not overly hard workers. Now yes, I am generalizing. Of course there are some very hard workers in Spain, but as a whole the people are more lax. They seem like a very happy, social society. Walk down any street in Spain and people are sitting at the outside cafes. They are laughing, drinking wine, singing, holding hands, kissing. Other places where we noticed the same type of general “happiness”were on the islands of Thailand, and Siem Reap- yes Cambodia. The poorest country in Asia, but the happiest people.

Spaniards do everything later. They wake up later, eat meals later. They take 3 hour siestas in the afternoon. The Spain diet has a lot of bread, wine and meat. Not a lot of green veggies from what we saw. Both Morocco and Spain have olives everywhere! Unlike the Muslim Mosques, the Spanish Catholic churches let everyone enter, even during mass. Many Spaniards know little to no English. Spain is also very affordable compared to US prices. Both Morocco and Spain have beautiful landscape and scenery throughout! Both countries have very good train systems, which make it easy to get from city to city. Both Spaniards and Moroccans seem vested in their families and religions. Muslims make up 99% of the Moroccan population, and Catholics are close to 70% of the Spanish population. There is no haggling in Spain. There are many homeless asking for handouts, but not hagglers like in Morocco.

I am fascinated by different cultures and societies. While there are so many differences, there are also many similarities across all. People for the most part are kind. I love the below quote-

“Repetition does not make memories; new experiences make memories”.

I think travel truly does make one richer- more tolerant and understanding of others, more patient and more knowledgable about the world.  Travel does not have to be to another country or even another city. Travel to see a new park near where you live. Travel does not have to be expensive. With research and points programs it can be affordable for most! If there is somewhere you want to go, make it happen! Make a plan and do it! YOLO!!!